Being transgendered crosses all boundaries, be they geographical, political or sexual. You can be straight and live in the Midwest U.S., or bisexual or gay and live in Russia. You can be a stay at home TG, or a party animal out on the town five nights a week!
I just returned from two more great TG conventions, the Eureka En Femme Getaway in beautiful Eureka Springs, Arkansas and the Fall Harvest conference in metropolitan Kansas City, Missouri. At the Eureka I signed my new book on Saturday night and help give out a few great prizes from TG LIFE advertisers. At Fall Harvest I was keynote speaker Friday night, did two seminars (one with TG LIFE columnist Margo) and also signed my new book. I had the pleasure of sitting in the vendor area with two of TG LIFE’s great sponsors; Dr. Sherman Leis of the Philadelphia Center for Transgendered Surgery and my good friend David from Express Medicine. And TG LIFE columnist Kennidi Monroe was the Keynote Speaker on Saturday night and also performed the song Voluptuous Diva from her upcoming CD.
The one point I wanted to make is that no matter where I go to talk to crossdressers and transsexuals, the questions I get, and the answers I give to the people I meet, are generally all the same. Because we are all the same no matter where we live. And despite sexual preferences, or geographical locations, we have many of the same questions and thoughts.
The married crossdresser shares many of the same worries and thoughts as the gay or bisexual crossdresser. The person breaking out of the TG closet in Florida has many of the same worries as the newbie from Minnesota. Worldwide we share the same problems and joys. I have met many TG’s from large cities that have the same fears of going out that ‘girls’ from a small town share. And the person from London, England can feel just as lonely as the girl from Poland or the Middle East.
Many of our TG sisters share the same fears, and many also share the same joys. I try to tell everyone I meet, to turn your fears into a positive force that can free your mind and set your life free. Once you realize that being transgendered is like receiving an extra Holiday gift, your whole outlook on life can change for the better! Nurture that gift and work on getting to the point where you become a complete person. Your life can make the giant step to becoming a complete soul with the same positive outlook that I have. I am no different than any of you – I just embrace my gift while many fear theirs. Toss the fear and guilt away and put a smile on your face! Be free!
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As always… Get Dressed, Get Out, Be Safe and Have Fun!
Gina Lance
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